Maybe I'm just way too sensitive, but I really don't like the idea of being "attacked" by my neighbors, or of getting "revenge." And I certainly don't want to ask those same neighbors for help afterwards. My human mind has a major problem with that.
Is it possible to call these "attacks" something else, like "challenges?" And instead of getting "revenge," could we ask for a "rematch?"
Also, most of my DC neighbors are at a much higher level than I am. My dragons have no change of winning these attacks. It would be nice if (only in the neighbor vs neighbor fights, not the tournaments or leagues) the loser would still gain something. If my real-life neighbor is that much better at something, I'm still willing to take on the challenge if I know I will learn from them in the process.
Thanks for considering!