So, im faced with a real dilema. My team to be honest im not too happy with, there are a few members who r great and help out and all talk and that stuff, but then 3/4 of the team sit there and barely get on the game, it really hurts in races and wars, i want to switch teams but i dont want my irl girlfriend who is also in the team as lead, to get in a hissy fit with me. I know that the most logical soloution is, find people who will take u both, the problem with that, is im a lvl 76 and shes a lvl 28, i have said on many occasions can we try to find more active people and nothing comes of it. Im sick of putting so much time and (earned not paid for) gems into races and we dont get rewards. I have no idea what to do

A mid-level Team might take you both. We don't accept over Level 45 or we would be glad to have you. Our Core Team is only 19 but we do well with them! 18/19 of our Core Group have qualified & the only one who hasn't is in Dual Enrollment with high school/college courses so he has his hands full. Especially since your gf is "real", you just need to sit down & talk with her! You have to decide if your Team is going to grow, regroup, or disband.